5 Signs You have Met Your Soul Family and How to Find your Tribe
Have you ever met someone you have never met before yet feel as if you know them from somewhere? They are familiar to you but you just can’t place them. Typically, these are people you hit it off with right away. You are able to go deep into conversation quickly and they feel safe/comfortable to you.
This is what is called Soul Family.
Soul Family
Soul Family is a connection of beings who travel through life times together and share a fragment of light of the same soul thus their energy is reflective of one another.
These souls understand you better than anyone else on this planet. A part of you will instantly recognize them by their energy signature.
I have met parts of my Soul family throughout my life but the biggest reunions have occurred within the last few years. Whether they have been online or in person, the remembrance of their energy has literally brought me to tears.
I didn’t realize how much I craved their friendship. I had been lonely and longing for this deep connection as I spent what seemed like a lifetime in isolation.
5 Signs that you have met your soul family
From these experiences of meeting members of my own soul family, I’m sharing with you 5 signs that indicate you have met a member of your own tribe. Plus the number one thing you can do to call in your own soul family now.
Sign 1 – Their energy feels like HOME
So many of us light beings long for this connection with our soul family because their energy reminds us most of home. This is the underlying desire - to connect back home in whatever way possible.
If you are tuned in enough, you will discover a certain level of homesickness within you. Longing for something you can’t even remember. If the veil was fully lifted and we truly remembered home, the longing and homesickness we would feel would be too painful to bare.
I once had a powerful meditation where some of my soul sisters were present. These were members of my soul family that I had already connected with in this lifetime. They showed up on their own accord in my meditation and the presence of their energy reminded of me home so much I started to sob.
Imagine the most incredible feeling of love and beauty alongside deep, deep, grief and sadness. Through my connection with my sisters, the veil parted just a glimpse for me to remember home enough that it was truly overwhelming, and I understood why the veil exists in the first place.
Sign 2 – You have an emotional reaction
Several years I ago, I was feeling incredibly lonely, and I set the intention to find deeper connections and friendships. I joined an online group to learn about healing modalities. In the very first zoom call where I met with 8 other women from all over the world, I began to cry.
At the time, I was embarrassed because it was uncontrollable. No matter my efforts to regroup, the tears wouldn’t stop flowing.
Our group leader enlightened me with the knowledge I knew was true – on a deep level, I recognized these other souls, and I was overwhelmed with happiness and gratitude for finding them again.
It was truly like attending the most amazing family reunion ever.
Sign 3 – You feel like you have met before
A few years ago, I was attending my first spiritual retreat and I had coordinated with another attendee to ride together to the event space. I just got off a long plane ride and even though I had never met this person before, I recognized who she might be in the crowd outside the airport.
As soon as we met, we hugged as if we had been long time friends, and we couldn’t stop talking in the car ride. The conversation was easy, and we could immediately go very deep while feeling totally comfortable and safe.
It felt as if it wasn’t the first time we were meeting but like we were old girlfriends catching up. I was so excited to learn more about what she had been up to in this lifetime.
This soul sister helped me process all the healing and awareness I received from the retreat. Without her support, I would have really struggled to sort out all that came up within me.
Sign 4 – You feel drawn to this person
On this same retreat, I met several members of my soul family, but some more than others I felt a strong energetic magnetism towards.
I found myself wanting to be in their presence as much as possible because it felt so good.
Historically, I have been averse to touching other people. I would avoid hugs, and touches of any kind made me feel very uncomfortable.
During the retreat we did several exercises to see how each other’s energy fields felt, and I was shocked how comfortable I was in close proximity with these souls. I felt drawn to be even closer to some, allowing parts of our bodies to touch.
I was so pulled in by some of these souls that I could stare into their eyes and maintain loving eye contact for a long period of time in total comfort and silence.
Sign 5 – You discover you have similar life experience
A friendship emerged from an online course I was taking and to further our skills we had learned in the class, we continued to meet after the course was complete. Each time we connected to practice our skills, we chatted and quickly discovered how similar our lives were.
We were both mothers to two children of similar ages and had husbands with shocking similarities. Because of our shared life experiences, I was able to help guide her through some difficult challenges by sharing my similar history.
Soul family have similar missions and purposes for incarnating at the same time, but they also exist to support one another and help each other heal and grow.
I continue to connect with this lovely soul weekly and our lives continue to unfold in tandem as we are now both in the process of building our future homes.
I am both in awe at the fact that we were able to meet considering she lives literally across the world from me in Australia and also sad that we aren’t able to physically connect.
Many of us are disappointed to discover that we do not find the souls we most connect with in our local territory.
This can amplify this feeling of loneliness. If you are feeling the heaviness of this, remember that it wouldn’t be serving the whole if all of the same energies were placed in the same geographic location. There is a reason why we are scattered all over the world.
Thank the Goddess for the internet!
Your energy is needed in your place in the world and without it, the bigger picture would be incomplete.
How to Find Your Soul Family
I can relate to feeling incredibly lonely. To craving deep connection and fulfilling relationships. To feeling homesick.
But the wisdom I’ve learned as I have deepened my own relationship with myself is that HOME is also within. I can connect to HOME anytime I desire. As I’ve healed myself on a more expansive level, I’ve also alleviated this desire to find something to fill me that’s outside myself.
I have been blessed to discover parts of my soul family along the way. They have emerged mostly through opportunities of personal growth like coaching, retreats, courses, trainings, healings and more.
The blessing of connecting with souls that truly understand you is not to be understated. They are supportive members on your healing journey. They help lift you up and are the souls you can lean into when the weight of it all seems too much.
They are the cheerleaders, the collaborators, the partners, and more… but they are not the path.
The path is your own journey back to home within you. Once you have started this path and begin the inner work that lets your true self and inner light shine… you become a lighthouse for your soul family to find you once again.
The number one way to find your soul family is by becoming the most authentic and true version of yourself.
Let your intuition guide your way and say yes to those opportunities of growth. And trust that you will find the souls you are met to connect with in this life. They will show up in your life at the perfect moment.
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